I never really related to adults
who seem to think/act as if age and life experience makes us more important and
fills us with vastly meaningful knowledge to place upon others, whether
others asked for that knowledge or not.
Maybe it's partly a parental thing (I don't
know; because I'm not a parent - and I also know parents who don't act this
way), but whatever it is, the people who seem to think that their own knowledge
will really empower others often seem to start acting
that way before they're even 30 years old.
As for me, sure I can share my
own thoughts and feelings and ideas related to/derived from my own life
experiences with others to an extent, but I'm not going to act like I'm some
expert on anything, because ultimately, I'm just me. I've never felt like an
expert who gains enough powerful knowledge to tell others what they should or
shouldn't do for themselves - how they should feel, how they should act, who
they should be. How about they just be themselves and don't be too stagnant?
I mean, if anyone asks me a
question, I'll try my best to answer, but not from some angle that seems to
imply that my way is the way everyone else should think or act or feel.
I don't think of my own life
experience and knowledge as steadily increasing and rising up (or down), I feel
like I'm mostly moving in the same slightly contorted semi-circle shapes,
sometimes slightly rising, sometimes repetitively falling, but mostly just
semi-circling, but trying not to be too stuck.
Even with my poems and art,
I'll feel really excited when I initially write a new poem, but usually it
doesn't take long after that before it doesn't feel new; it feels more like I'm
repeating different variations on the same subject again and again. I hope I'm
not too stagnant or stuck - but I think it's more of an always moving
mentality, even if I'm repeatedly moving in similar directions.
I actually tend to love when people
share their own genuine thoughts, feelings, experiences, and ideas in personal passionate expressive sort of waves.
But back to those who feel the need to
share their own seemingly vast knowledge in an expert-like sort of manner, who
the heck knows everything they need to know in life when they hit a certain
age? NOBODY. In fact, I don't think anybody knows everything EVER.
Maybe people who tend to limit their own lives in certain ways feel the need to limit other people's lives in similar ways too.
But what do I know? That's
just my own opinion on something or other.
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